Sexfight
Sexfight
A sexfight is a voluntary erotic physical competition involving at least one woman and leading to one or more orgasms. It is normally written as a single word, i.e., sexfight, not "sex fight". There are several variations, but the most common version involves forcing the opponent to orgasm against their will. In real life sexfights are quite rare. They are far more common in erotic short stories available primarily on the Internet. As with much fetish material, sexfight material has an extremely limited audience—either the reader or viewer loves it or isn't interested.
When the opponents are both male, it is usually called a cockfight.
A sexfight differs from a catfight, which involves scratching, slapping, perhaps arm twisting, tit-squeezing, hair-pulling, punching and even biting but does not normally involve trying to force an orgasm.
Sexfights in Real Life
"Alternative Dispute Resolution": In real life it is quite rare that two women will decide to "settle things" between them by a sexfight. Reasons they might do so would be that (1) they want to sexually overpower the other woman, or (2) they want to find who the "better woman" is (meaning to find the better lover), or (3) because they decide to have that kind of fight over a man or over another woman or (4) over something they both want very much. In reality, those cases mostly exist in sexfight videos and sexfight stories rather than in real life. They are a quite popular men's fantasy. However, rare does not mean that they do not exist in real life at all.
Minor Decision Making: Sometimes lovers will bet on the result of their match. In those cases the winner gets to do something her way (while the loser had other ideas) or the loser has do something neither wanted to do, such as washing the dishes or taking out the garbage for a week. They play all these "on the bed" and the winner of the sexfight decides.
Sex Game - Friendly Competition: The more common kind of sexfight in real life is the "competitive trib" or "friendly" sexfight. In this case a sexfight is nothing more than a sexual game between two lovers to enjoy some wilder moments together and to raise their excitement because of the heat of their supposed "contest". There is nothing to be settled between them, they are simply playing a role-playing game in which they argue about something and they want to settle it by a sexfight.
This kind of sexfight does exist in real life. Not as much as other more popular sexual games (yet, these ideas have started to spread lately) but much more than a sexfight after a real dispute or a rivalry. As happens in every sexual game, a sexfight is not for all, not every woman or every man is a sexfighter. Some like it and they find this sexual game exciting, some find it silly or it simply does not work for them. In general the rule is that "Sexfighting is not for everyone. Even if it is for us it is not for all the times, it is not to be played with every partner". The same happens with other sexual games as well.== Sexfight Variations ==
are the common variations found either in stories or in videos:
Erotic Wrestling: This is one of the most common sexfight forms. Two women wrestle naked, or in bikinis, or in bras and panties, or in bras and pantyhose. Often they wear stockings and garterbelts. The holds generally involve "wrestling around" rather than either formal amateur or pro wrestling techniques.
Loser Cums First: Whoever cums first loses. A problem with this is that for commercial videos it results in women wrestling around for 90 minutes with one orgasm, and that doesn't sell well. For stories, if the story is more than 3-5 pages it will involve loads of build-up that can get boring.
Two Out of Three: AvidMike at Chickfight.com started this. His original videos were "loser cums first". Of course, a commercial video in his price range needs to be at least an hour, so if one opponent orgasms after 20 minutes they have to continue to have a saleable product.
Most Orgasms in an Hour: This started with Sasha vs. Monique from Chickfight. The video started as "best two out of three". However, the two girls were lesbians and lovers in real life and, unlike previous videos, they did not try to defend against stimulation or pull away when they felt an orgasm approaching. The result was three forced orgasms in less than ten minutes! Sasha is extremely aggressive and has had more than 10 orgasms in each of her videos, although she only lost one sexfight, to Dakota. To give you an idea what this can involve, in Sasha vs. Monique 2, Sasha won by a score of 17-15.
Fight Until One Quits: The two women continue until one quits either because she is too exhausted or because the marathon sex is becoming too painful. This is moderately common in stories and fairly rare in videos. Although most videos last an hour, in Sasha vs. Monique 2, Monique actually quit from exhaustion after being forced to orgasm 17 times in 59 minutes.
Trib-only: Some women prefer tribadism because it can be very erotic and stimulating, so they limit the fight to tribadism. An example was Veronika vs. Alexis at Chickfight.com. Alexis deliberately chose tribadism because in her previous sexfight, where she won 2-0, tribadism was the main thing that turned her on.
No Defense: In early Chickfight videos, the women often fought to prevent their opponent from stimulating them. Nakita had several fights that ended with a single orgasm. Because sexfight fans are more interested in the "sex" than the "fight", such videos don't sell well. Newer Chickfight videos often involve competitors just seeing who can hold out longer with direct clit-to-clit stimulation.
Go At It Mechanically: Sometimes two women in a video will simply get into a scissors-trib position and just mechanically rub each other until one of them cums, with no attempt to seduce the other one, no attempt to change positions, etc.
Battle of Wills: In this variation the women engage in mutual stimulation until either one breaks off or one cums. This usually involves various types of tribadism (rodeo, cowgirl, scissors, reverse scissors, missionary, windmill), sixty-nine, mutual deep-fingering, or rubbing each other's clits.
Victory Orgasm: The women agree that the loser will perform oral sex on the winner until the winner cums. Usually, the loser lies on her back and the winner sits on her face as a symbol of conquest.
Humiliation: This is common in stories and occasionally appears in scripted videos. The idea is that two women sexfight either over a man or lesbian lover or for dominance.
In stories:
The winner often humiliates the loser by kicking her out naked or in torn clothes. The winner humiliates the loser by having sex with her man or her lesbian lover while the loser watches. The winner humiliates the loser by requiring the loser to have sex with the winner's man or lesbian lover. The winner and her man or lesbian lover share the loser sexually. The winner forces the loser to a huge orgasm with a dildo or some other means, generally while a crowd is watching or in front of the loser's man. The winner forces the loser to give her a victory orgasm.
Force an Orgasm or Have an Orgasm while in a Controlling Position:
In this variation a "point" can be scored in several ways:
Force the opponent to orgasm against her will Force your own orgasm while preventing the opponent from preventing it. For instance, a woman gets her opponent in a "school-girl" pin and then rubs her own clitoris until she cums all over her opponent's face. Force the opponent to bring her to orgasm. For instance, hold the opponent in a school-girl pin and force her to perform oral sex till the winner cums. If anyone tries these in real life it is extremely important to agree on the rules in advance in detail. There have been reports of real-life sexfights where each woman claimed she won and it led to a real fight—the woman on the bottom said, "I made you cum. I won." The woman on top said, "I got myself off while controlling you. I won."
Celebrities: A number of fictitious stories involve sexfights between two well-known female celebrities, usually actresses or women in the news.
WWE Female Wrestlers: There is a free site with loads of fictional stories about WWE female wrestlers and "divas". However, the stories are not widely circulated. Many stories on the same site involve rape or other brutality.
Uncommon or non-existent types of sexfights
Although these themes do occur in stories rarely, they are almost non-existent in videos.
RAPE: A sexfight does not involve rape. In a rape, one person does not want to be involved and the other person overcomes the resistance by force, drugs or threats. In a sexfight, each participant is trying to win either by forcing her opponent to cum or by using her opponent to cum. In a sexfight, when one opponent is saying, "No!" it isn't that she doesn't want to participate, it's that her opponent is close to forcing her to orgasm.
Beat Up and Force Orgasm: This occurs in some stories but not in videos. The scenario is that the two women engage in a fistfight, a catfight or a boxing match, one literally beats up the other and then she brings her to orgasm against her will. In these stories, the storyline is not that the two agree to battle and the winner will be permitted to stimulate the loser to orgasm; it is that the winner brutalizes the loser. It is essentially a rape or forcible sodomy.
Overpower and Force Orgasm: This is common in stories but not in real life. Women usually want an opponent of roughly equal size and weight. Women involved in a sexfight start sweating pretty quickly, which makes their bodies slippery. People familiar with this technique have said that if a woman slick from sweat is really trying to resist her opponent, e.g., by pushing away, it is almost impossible to overpower the woman, hold her helpless and stimulate her enough to make her orgasm. (Regarding the difference between "overpower" and "beat up", a wrestler who pins her opponent is not beating her up.)
Unconsciousness: This is not particularly rare in stories but unheard of in videos due to the possibility of severe injury or even death. Basically, the idea is that one opponent renders the other unconscious with a smother hold, choking, etc. Often it involves a "sleeper" hold or the victor covering the loser's face with her ass. Sometimes it involves a woman with huge tits holding her opponent in her cleavage. The breast smother is most commonly found in male-female stories.
Most Orgasms: A number of us have discussed this on the Sensuous Tribadism and Kissing website because it sounds like this would be a huge turn-on for those of us who like to see the women orgasm. Unfortunately, AvidMike has pointed out that this would really wind up as just two women faking a lot of orgasms.
Male versus Female: Although videos are available they are quite rare and highly scripted and they involve severely mismatched opponents, such as a 180-pound 6 foot-tall woman bodybuilder and experienced wrestler versus a 5 foot 4 inch 110-pound man with no wrestling experience. Stories tend to be quite absurd, as they will involve things like a guy in his mid-20's to mid-30's cumming 4 times in an hour.
Sexfight / Cockfight Combo:A few stories contain this theme but no videos because essentially a sexfight is lesbian porn, a cockfight is gay male porn and they appeal to different audiences. Also, the audience for sexfight materials is mainly male and straight men tend to feel uncomfortable about gay materials.
Multiple-opponent matches:
AvidMike has indicated that, strictly for practical reasons, it is extremely unlikely that anyone will ever produce a multiple-opponent video. The biggest problem is getting the models to show up. He often has to cancel scheduled 2-girl shoots at the last minute.
"Handicap Match": A "handicap match" is a two-on-one match. In pro wrestling, this usually involves a really big and well-known wrestler fighting two small wrestlers who are newcomers and the big wrestler defeats both wrestlers. I have suggested to AvidMike having a woman who is pretty good at holding off her orgasms fight two women who have difficulty resisting orgasm, taking them on one at a time. An alternative would be that the one woman can wear a bra, panties and stockings and the two women have to fight nude, which would make stimulation more effective against them. Realistically, it is quite unlikely either of those will happen. I have not seen stories with such a theme either.
Tag Team: In tag-team wrestling a wrestler can tag out with a partner. In a sexfight, this would be done to avoid an orgasm. The video would be one long wrestling match probably with a single orgasm.
Round Robin: I have suggested a variation to AvidMike with three girls, two at a time, where a woman switches out after she cums. The benefit of this would be that the woman who didn't cum would be somewhat tired and probably quite turned on and now she would have to face a rested opponent who is probably less excited because she has been watching but was not in physical contact with an opponent.
Battle Royal: In a Battle Royal, "anybody is game". If, for example, there were eight participants, they would randomly pair off and when a woman cums she would be eliminated. Ganging up would be allowed, etc. There have been a few Battle Royal stories but they are rare and videos are virtually non-existent.
Two-Couples Sexfight: There are a few stories in which couples ("A" & "B") sexfight, where Wife A takes on Boyfriend B while Girlfriend B takes on Husband A. When a person cums they are out of the fight. In one interesting story Boyfriend B cums, Wife A and Husband A gang up on Girlfriend B (allowed) and she makes both of them cum.
Combinations with other fetishes:
Bondage: There are some highly scripted videos where the winner ties up the loser and usually pretends to spank her, etc. Almost all of these are very poorly acted, with the sex completely faked. Also, people interested in sexfights generally are not interested in bondage and vice versa. Since these are both niche markets, it is even harder to find a customer base interested in both.
Sex Toys: There are some scripted videos where the opponents use sex toys at some point. Usually, these will have three segments, one with toys, one a sexfight and a third segment. In general people interested in sexfights are not interested in toys.
Wrestling in Oil, Jello, Mud, Spaghetti, etc.: These are quite rare. Women wrestling quickly start sweating, so oil does not substantially increase slipperiness. Oil or mud make it almost impossible to hold the woman long enough to make her orgasm. In addition, oil makes any medium or long hair look ratty, not sexy. People interested in watching sexfights generally want to see the forced orgasms, not women covered in mud.
Golden Showers, etc.: Again, both these and sexfighting are niche markets, with essentially no overlap. Many of Aussie Greg's stories contain a bit of such content but he is almost unique in this.
